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Take My Bedtime Routine—Please!

Elisabeth Wilkins, EP Editor — Mon, 09 Jun 2008 15:27:21 +0000

Here’s a dirty little secret: I long for the type of family bedtime that you see in the movies. You know, the one where the parents read their children a book, kiss them on their freshly-scrubbed foreheads with an “I love you,” and softly shut their kids’ bedroom doors at 7 p.m. (more…)

The Mommy Wars: The Stay-at-Homes vs. the Working Moms

Elisabeth Wilkins, EP Editor — Fri, 16 May 2008 19:21:16 +0000

I was on the phone with a good friend of mine the other day when she stopped me cold with a comment about working moms. She said, “I never wanted to put my kids in daycare. I could never do that to my children.” It took me aback because 1) I’m a working mom and 2) I’ve never thought that having my son in daycare was a form of torture for him, or that it made me less of a parent somehow. As usual, I got flustered and said something like, “Er, well, it hasn’t been that bad…”

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10 Tips for Internet Safety

Elisabeth Wilkins, EP Editor — Thu, 01 May 2008 11:31:15 +0000

I came across this article on Internet Safety and thought I’d pass it along, since we’ve been talking about this topic a lot on EP and in the blog. Some good info in here for parents of tech-savvy kids.

And by the way, if you have any other good Internet Safety tips, please pass them along!

Grand Theft Auto IV: The “Violence in Video Games” Debate Continues

Elisabeth Wilkins, EP Editor — Mon, 28 Apr 2008 16:42:15 +0000

Grand Theft Auto IV is now on store shelves–until it sells out, that is. The wildly popular video game series, which takes the gamer on a rampage of car theft, murder and brutal beatings across a NYC-like landscape, is predicted by many to break all sales records.

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A Day in the Life of a Child with O.D.D.

James Lehman, MSW — Mon, 21 Apr 2008 11:00:31 +0000

A day with a child who has Oppositional Defiant Disorder is a series of battles. It starts when they wake up, continues at breakfast, intensifies when they have to get dressed, and doesn’t end until they fight with you over bedtime.

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Third Graders Plot to Kill Teacher Uncovered: What Next?

James Lehman, MSW — Wed, 02 Apr 2008 20:03:18 +0000

A group of third-graders—kids ages 8-10—were caught plotting to attack and kill their elementary school teacher. They even had assigned roles—one child was going to blacken the windows of the classroom, and another was going to clean up afterward. The nine boys and girls in the learning disabilities class (kids in the class have ADHD, ADD and developmental delays) were organized enough to bring knives, a paperweight, handcuffs and duct tape. The plan was to knock her unconscious with the paperweight and then stab her. The reason why they were going to attack her? She’d scolded a girl for standing on a chair in the classroom. The teacher of the class, Miss Belle Carter, said that they were “good kids” and couldn’t believe they were planning to attack her.

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Guess Who’s Sleeping in My Bed: Should Kids Sleep in Bed with their Parents?

Elisabeth Wilkins, EP Editor — Mon, 03 Mar 2008 17:55:21 +0000

“I didn’t get any sleep last night,” said Bill, another parent at my son’s school, when I dropped off Alex this morning. And Bill did look horrible– scraggly beard, dark circles under his eyes and crazy bed head–almost like he’d gone on a bender. “Maya (6) got up 2 times last night. I ended up sleeping in bed with Cameron (3), and my wife was in bed with Maya. I never know where I’ll end up during the night,” he said as he shuffled off in search of coffee. If this game of musical beds sounds familiar, there’s a reason—co-sleeping, or sleeping in bed with your kids—is on the rise, and has been increasing every year for the last decade or so.

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